One never notices what had been done; one can only see what remains to be done. (Marie Curie)
I think that many of my juveniles on probation believe this is the way I view them. Often they will say that they are only noticed when they have violated their probation. They will inform me that they don’t feel that their parents are able to see the good they may have done, like clean their room, or complete their community service. I try to make a point when I am lecturing my juveniles for not honoring their probation to point out the things they have completed.
In my life I tend to also look at what I need to accomplish or need to complete versus what I have accomplished or have completed. I think this may be from the negative out look we take on. Most of us tend to look at the glass as only have full and try to find what we need to do to make it full. Sometimes I will reflect on back on the things when I am stressed and find that I can not complete everything. I make a point to stop and look at all the things I have accomplished and realize that when I started the glass was empty and that I should now admire it for being half full. When I do take this moment to look back at where I have come from and the things I have completed and accomplished, realizing that I really have done a lot. It is these times after realizing how much I have achieved that I feel less stressed about needed to complete everything.
This is when I take the deep breath and hold my head high for my achievements and instead of rushing through each day driving to get to something. I realize the journey is the most important part. Take for instance of how I was able to move from one state to another with only knowing two people in the new state. I pushed myself and become frustrated when I could not find a job quick enough or find new friends. I look back now and realize that I started a whole new life in a new place without knowing anyone and that this was an accomplishment in and of itself. I see how silly I was to be frustrated at what I did not have and that I should have taken pride in what I had. I see that in society in general, a bigger push needs to be made to see where we have come from, and less attention paid on where we can not get too.
AHHHH YAAAA. It’s coming can you feel it? I can and I am dso pumped. From sideline player to team leader. That’s right this year in 09 I am leading my defense. I tell you and they are a hitting bunch. I can’t wait. We have a great group of girls and great coaches. SO now is the time to strap it up and down the pads. Well not quite yet with have a few more laps to run. But all my mini segments are on 